Never Murder Yourself :( :( :(

Suicides in India is not a rare phenomenon especially among Students and newly weds.Suicides is just a outburst of pressure and distress accumulated over a period of time, which bursts itself to the height of murdering yourself....


In countries like India where there is immense competition right from registering your birth till finding a burial place for you, pressure and stress is immense.Behind every person's success there are hundreds of failures and disappointments. These factors keeps adding on and it creates a dormant volcano of pressure, anger, stress, disappointments etc,. within one's heart.When this dormant volcano explodes, then the anger flows like lava destroying whatever comes in its way...


The reason why these unfortunate incidents are prevalent among students and newly weds is because these two periods of life are most tender ones.The academic intelligence in India is very vast and in-depth knowledge is given to students but when it comes to emotional intelligence students are very weak.Parents just load their children with their unfulfilled dreams and children suffer a lot unable to bear the huge weight forced upon them.Finally, when the applied weight goes beyond the elastic limit they take the option of ending their life...


The first year after marriage especially for a person in arranged marriage is very crucial. Talking about love marriages both boy and girl know each other very well hence understanding between them is good.But when it comes to arranged marriages the bride enters into a new phase of life depending entirely on bridegroom. If his/her expectations about their spouse is not satisfied then unable to bear the disappointment they murder oneself.I don't say suicides occur only in arranged marriages but according to statistics it is more prevalent in arranged marriages....


There is just one prime solution for this problem.Always have a person whom you can depend upon and share your pain and happiness with them.Pain is an emotion which it not contagious like laughter as laugh is an expression.Only when you share your emotions you can reduce the hot-blowing anger lava in your heart.You can also share your pain electronically through e mails and texting but Share it.Another solution is that carry a pic of your loved ones with you and see their smiling face when negative intentions flow through your brain...


"Time is the greatest healer".The magnitude of any problem reduces with time so never take any failures as ultimate flop of your life.Remember, to get Gold it has to go through heating and cooling...Life is also like that never put a full stop to it......

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